This is one more instance which supports the saying
"Things are easier said than done".
One can forgive easily but forgetting is one of the difficult jobs in the world।if u forget the pains/insults caused by others then no doubt u can forgive them as well .
but just imagine how difficult it is to forgive without forgetting !!
can u force anything to get out of ur memory lane ?
you may tend to ignore the things but forgeting a bit difficult thing to d.
ok few questions
can u forget a friend whom u supported at all the times and when it was his/her turn to support u turned hostile ? can u forget the pain caused by this blunder ? no
your friend may convince you that he/she was not in position to support you but then can u forget thet episode happened .. You may speak to your friend very nicely and you may ignore but at some stage of your life you wil be haunted by all these things.
can u forget an incidence where in your friend insulted you for no fault of urs।here too you may forgive your friend but forgetting is bit difficult :)
some people say "nothing is impossible" i say forgetting is possible only in 2 situation
1. when something good happens which wil force you not to remember bad things
2. if you loose your memory :D
these are only choosen instances but from past life one can find lot of things like this
which are forgivable but not forgetable.. :)
What do u say ? :)
"Things are easier said than done".
ReplyDeleteI agree with the above sentence Viky, its difficult to forgive without forgetting but... forgiving without forgetting is not good. so its better to forgive & forget instead of forget & forgive. Its all human nature!
hm yes i agree wit you as well manju.. but u see.. it is difficult.... many a time i tried to do this "forgive and forget" policy .. i foud it difficult.. atmost what one can do is can avoid remembering the forgiven things .. forgetting .. .. and one more thing that all depends on quality of brain as well..
ReplyDeleteif the person tends to forget every simple thing then he wil forget this big things also.. alva ?
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ReplyDeleteYes it is difficult to forget and forgive some one. Sometimes we say I forgave but actually forgiveness means you have also forgot it by just telling I forgave is not sufficient.That's why "FORGIVENESS is ACT of GREAT"
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